Get it together!

So Mary, This blog is for you. Its an open letter to you so enjoy!

Dear Mary,

I haven't been inspired much lately to blog. I haven't had much going on to blog about and quite frankly I am tired of my "woe is me" blogs so I figured until I have something better to write about I wont blog for awhile.

Anyway I just got off facebook after listening to a young ladies video blog and in fact it got me inspired. She was talking about how women are so quick to say men are dogs and there are no good men out there. However, she believes differently. She said, she believes there are a lot of good men out there but the problem usually is the woman. What are you putting out there? What is making you attract all these undesirable men. I mean as a woman if you say you want a man who is good looking and works out with a nice body, do you work out and have a good body? If you claim you want a man with a good job with good credit and is financially alright, you as the woman do you have those things together to attract such a man. So before we get up and claim all men are dogs and we can't find a good man, what are we putting out there to attract those men and that we need to love ourselves and put the right image out there before we can find that special someone. So it had me thinking, I am soo quick to look at my situation and say i have no luck and nothing is going my way and basically woe is me! I realise that everything going wrong in my life may be because of the image I put out there. What am I doing wrong that is attracting all this negative vibe and my problem is I give off a wrong vibe. For example my girl called me today. Haven't spoken to her since i left maryland and we were chatting. Mind you she and I are going through the exact same thing. We used to work together in DC and we both quit on the exact same day because we realised this job was going no where and she just graduated from her masters still has no job but her attitude is a lot more cheerful than me. She is upset that she hasnt found a job but at least when i picked up the fone it wasnt "ohhh I hate my life" Here I was "Ohh my life sucks, and I have no job, and no man" I mean thinking about now, had I been in her shoes I probably would have rolled my eyes and said get it together its not the end of the world!

I think its finally time I re-evaluated my life and stop complaining about why everything is wrong and start looking at what i can do to make it right, changing my image, believing in myself and praying that everything works out. I mean can't even blame men for not coming up to me. Obviously my facial expression tells them everything they need to know. Much more when I open my mouth and speak. So I am taking a vow to change my attitude towards life, to make the changes I need to make to put out positive vibes into the world and just have a better attitude towards everything.